NCW wastes taxpayer’s money – Shut it down

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See the below news,

Audit raps NCW for huge backlog, spendthrift ways

And the chairperson, Dr. Vyas cites, “lack of manpower” as excuse.

Now, already the existing short manpower is spending extra-money, one can only imagine the splurge with more “manpower”.

When will the NCW stop fooling the nation?

Already the uncalled for “Male-Hatred” that the NCW is spreading is contributing to 58000 husbands committing suicide every year and every 9 mins a married man succumbing to social injustices spearheaded by the NCW.

Not only that in the last 5 years (2004-2008) 160,00o innocent women (mothers, sisters and other female relatives of husbands) have been arrested, without trial or investigation, under the dubious Section 498A – totally unconstitutional law and subject to widespread misuse.

Has the NCW been created to spread injustices in the society?

Will this Govt. answer this question?


WCD Ministry runs away from e-Mails

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Looks like WCD (Ministry of Women and Child Development) has closed their email shop suddenly. Till recently this official mail ID <> was working fine… But today I suddenly got this bounce back from them:

From: Mail Delivery System <>
Date: Sun, Jan 24, 2010 at 1:31 PM
Subject: Delivery Status Notification (Failure)
To: <my mail id>

The following message to <> was undeliverable.
The reason for the problem:
5.4.7 – Delivery expired (message too old) [Default] 451-‘4.2.1 mailbox temporarily disabled:

Final-Recipient: rfc822;
Action: failed
Status: 5.0.0 (permanent failure)
Remote-MTA: dns; []
Diagnostic-Code: smtp; 5.4.7 – Delivery expired (message too old) [Default] 451-‘4.2.1 mailbox temporarily disabled:‘ (delivery attempts: 76)

I’m not alone… a friend of mine got a similar one too:

From: Mail Delivery System <>
Date: Sun, Jan 24, 2010 at 10:14 PM
Subject: Delivery Status Notification (Failure)
To: <his mail id>

The following message to <> was undeliverable.
The reason for the problem:
5.4.7 – Delivery expired (message too old) [Default] 451-‘4.2.1 mailbox temporarily disabled:

Final-Recipient: rfc822;
Action: failed
Status: 5.0.0 (permanent failure)
Remote-MTA: dns; []
Diagnostic-Code: smtp; 5.4.7 – Delivery expired (message too old) [Default] 451-‘4.2.1 mailbox temporarily disabled:‘ (delivery attempts: 76)

I wonder what could be the reason of shying away form the netizens like this!

More laws not the answer in India

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M D Nalapat

This past week, attendance at cinema houses has suffered because of two stories that have repeatedly been shown on television. The star of the first is the 86-year old Congress Party politician,Narain Dutt Tiwari, who has been Chief Minister of two states,a Union Cabinet Minister,and till a few days ago,the Governor of Andhra Pradesh. According to the channels, a charming lady from his home state of Uttaranchal used to arrange for other – and much younger – women from the same location to visit the Governor in his official residence.

Although protocol demands that each appointment be cleared by the Intelligence Bureau, this was not done.Instead,the lovely young ladies were escorted by an Officer On Special Duty ( very special duty,indeed) past the security checkpoints at the Raj Bhavan to the waiting arms of His Excellency. No entry was made in the visitor logs,and the Chief of Security was informed that the ladies in question were all “close relatives” of the Governor. Of course, the “close relatives” usually looked very different from each other,thus raising questions as to the gene pool they belonged to being 86, Tiwari did not follow the example of some other Governors, who met their “relatives” in 5-star hotels rather than in their official residences. Indeed,in Delhi, at least two 5-star hotels are known for the multitude of charming “relatives” that come for short periods – sometimes at night but usually in the afternoons) to meet “Uncleji” for what must surely be chats about the weather. Others rely on close friends to provide the venues needed for such refreshing encounters, meetings that do so much to preserve family values and the spirit of togetherness. Sadly for Tiwari, his contact got annoyed because a promised coal mine allocation did not materialise. She promptly got one of the “neices” to film Uncleji as he gave learned discourses in the bedroom to her and to two other “neices”, discourses where the practical mingled happily with the theoretical.


Men’s Rights Activist openly threatened on live TV Show

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Below complaint shows the anarchy India is going through currently. If the woman’s organization are so sure about their causes why are they getting insecure about men’s issues being highlighted in the media?

How are abused men a threat to the existence of women’s organizations that they have stooped this low to run their “Shops of Women’s Rights?”

Or is it that the wrong representations they make about women’s (read wives’) victimization will be exposed by men’s rights movements and they will stop receiving funds?

Are they more concerned about their funds than social issues and women?

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Uma Challa
Date: Wed, Oct 21, 2009 at 9:41 PM
Subject: My complaint
21 October, 2009

Sanjeeva Reddy Nagar PS


I am the President of All India Forgotten Women (Regd.). Our organization is observing October as “Domestic Violence Awareness Month”. As part of this campaign, we launched two organizations – 1) All India Men’s Welfare Association and 2) Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association. The news about the launch of Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association has been covered widely by the print media as well as several TV Channels. TV5 invited me for a live show “Snehita” today, 21 October 2009, between 2:15 to 3:00 pm. One of the callers, seemingly a follower of V. Sandhya, President of POW, abused me over the phone for launching the organization and for debating on TV with V. Sandhya. She also threatened me to close the organization.

I fear danger to my life and limb from V. Sandhya’s followers, and I request you to please provide me protection. I also request you to please investigate into the matter, and take appropriate action against the offenders. The origin of the call, phone number of the caller and recording of the show should be available.

with TV5. I would also like to state that should any harm occur to my life or limb the above mentioned followers of Sandhya should be held responsible for it.


Uma Challa
President All India Forgotten Women (Regd.)

Director General of Police, AP
Commissioner of Police, Hyderabad
Commissioner of Police, Cyberabad

Further questions to those Women’s Organizations are:

  1. Did they ever helped any Mother-in-law who had been to problems because of a daughter-in-law?
  2. Is there any example that they can show where-in a daughter-in-law has been punished by any Court of India even after the Court’s Judgment is that, Mother-in-law was innocent and it was the daughter-in-law who caused the problems?
  3. Can they support any Mother-in-law if that Mother-in-law complains against her daughter-in-law with Proofs, I repeat with Proofs? What kind of punishment they suggest for that daughter-in-law? Can they agree for the same kind of punishment in a reverse scenario? Can they see a woman in that Mother-in-law?

Indian police encourages abuses: Human Rights Watch

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LONDON: India is modernizing fast but its police still indulges in widespread human rights violations, a prominent human rights group claimed on Tuesday as it pressed the government to overhaul a “failing system”.

The US-based group Human Rights Watch said “India is modernising rapidly, but the police continue to use their old methods: abuse and threats.”

“India’s policing system facilitates and even encourages abuses,” the 118-page report said.

It said there has been little change in attitudes, training or equipment since the police was formed in colonial times with the aim to control the population.

The report said the government must take major steps to overhaul a failing system.

Brad Adams, Asia director at Human Rights Watch said, “it’s time for the government to stop talking about reform and fix the system.”

The authorities require a major overhaul – otherwise the beatings, torture and illegal killings will continue to stain India’s democracy, he said.

According to the report, there was no immediate response from the Indian authorities.

Letter to Law Minister for Judicial Reforms

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The Honorable Minister for Law and Justice,

Dr. M. Veerappa Moily,

Ministry of Law and Justice,

4th Floor, A-Wing, Shastri Bhawan,

New Delhi-110 001

Subject: Mother of a victimized son demands Judicial Reforms from the Law Minister

Honorable Sir,

No country can progress unless it gives justice to its own people. Today, Indian judiciary is in a dysfunctional state with more than 2.6 Crore pending cases. I a common Indian Citizen request the immediate implementation of Judicial Reforms. This also requires cooperation from judiciary, lawyers, politicians and different State Governments.

A report by Transparency International, the Global Corruption Watchdog organization said in February 2006, “in India 26 Supreme Court judges faced a backlog of more than 30,000 pending cases; over three million cases were pending in the high courts – 350 years of work for the country’s 670 judges at the current rate of resolution”.

I would henceforth request that the Honorable Law Minister include the below recommendations included in the Judicial reform process.

  1. To make IPC section 498A a bailable Law.
  2. To make IPC section 498A a non-cognizable Law.
  3. A circular should be immediately issued to all the Police Stations in the country with specific directions not to arrest any person u/s 498A and 406 without thorough investigation and attempt of counseling where the wife is alive. If any arrest is made, it should be officially signed and authorized by a SP or DCP rank and the police should be made to justify the arrest with prima facie evidence.
  4. The learned court could carefully consider whether the allegations of the bride are indeed genuine at least against the in-laws or other relatives of the husband when it directs investigation under section 156(3) of CrPC for an offence under section 498A.
  5. The Learned court could carefully take into account whether custodial detention is at all needed for the in-laws and other relatives.
  6. Arrest should be made only after getting orders from the Magistrate after primary investigation and producing facts and evidences before the Magistrate
  7. Arrest should not be made before trial in cases where the wife is alive.
  8. Sections 120B, 177, 182, 211, 199, 200, 209, 499 and 500 of IPC should be extensively used against false complainants.
  9. At the stage of counseling before 498A, the parents and/or relatives of the wife should be strictly prohibited to interfere in the family matter of the daughter. If the in-laws are blamed, after investigation, the in-laws should be separated from the son of the family. The husband and wife should be asked to stay separately.
  10. Counseling if any should be brought out of the ambit of police or government officials and be handed over to different NGO’s working in this field hence making sure that it is a real counseling and not a threatening process.
  11. To replace the word “husband” or “wife” with the word “spouse in all related laws, so as to ensure equality in law for men and women.
  12. Make provisions for a man to file complaint when a wife and in-laws harass him and commit cruelty. Create sections 498B and 304C in IPC to protect men and women in his family when the perpetrators of crime are daughters-in-law and their family.
  13. Make provision for penalty on a false complaint by amending IPC 498A. Lodging a complaint u/s 498A IPC has become a tool of manipulation, legal blackmail and legal terrorism in the hands of certain unscrupulous people.
  14. Speedy and fair trial in all marital disputes.
  15. Make registration of marriages compulsory. Gifts at time of marriage must be listed and photographed.
  16. Make extensive use of section 3 and 4 of the Dowry Prohibition Act.
  17. Strict conviction of either the complainant or the defendant.
  18. No negotiations be allowed at the cost of money/property/gift whatsoever and the faulty should be severely punished.
  19. For any negotiation or exchange of amounts made, both the parties should be made liable for prosecution on recommendation of a third party.
  20. Ensure fair and unbiased investigation & trial of Dowry related complaints, which is totally in favor of daughter-in-law and disregards the trauma caused to mothers and sisters due to a false complaint. Judiciary and enforcement agencies must recognize the possibility of wives and daughter-in-law maltreating the husband and old in-laws or other vulnerable members of the husband’s family.
  21. Distant relatives not routinely living with the couple should not be allowed to be named in the complaint and excluded routinely.
  22. Fathers should not be routinely deprived of child custody by assuming mother is the best for the child. Child should not be made to choose between parents and joint custody should be preferred.
  23. No Passport surrender and unnecessary travel restrictions should be imposed at the time of bail. Passports should not be impounded and restrictions of going abroad where wife is alive should be lifted with a condition that the husband should appear in the court as and when summoned.
  24. Elder abuse in the name of IPC 498A should be absolutely stopped.
  25. Government employees should not face compulsory suspension in case of arrest due to a false complaint.
  26. Legislation involving domestic issues should be enacted keeping in view the preservation of institution of marriage and not based on gender bias.
  27. 82% of the individual income tax collected in the country is paid by men. Spending is all done for women only. Animals in the country have a welfare ministry. Now is a need for opening of a Men’s welfare ministry.
  28. On the lines of the Crime-Against-Women Cells, Crime-Against-Men Cells are also becoming need of the hour.

Thanking you,

Yours faithfully,
Indian Citizens

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Vote for any party, BUT NOT for Congress


Dear all Indian Husbands and their Family Members,

Nowadays more than 57000 Indian Husbands are ending their lives in suicide every year due to the anti-husband, anti-family and anti-child biased and lopsided marital laws like Section 498A / Domestic Violence Act / CRPC125 / Adultery law / four different maintenance laws, all passed by the Congress. The entire family of Husbands has been converted into a Free ATM machine and they are being treated worse than an animal in this country due to all biased and lopsided law and policy by the Congress party.

Inspite of The Honorable Supreme Court terming the Misuse of Section 498A as “Unleashing of a new Legal Terrorism on innocent husband’s family” and Domestic Violence Act as “one of the most clumsy drafted law”, the Congress led UPA government has not taken any corrective action and the entire family of husbands is suffering today because of that.

Whether the allegations are true or false, it’s merely on the basis of the verbal allegation of the wife (read married woman), that the entire family of husbands including his mother, sister (again read married women) are thrown out of their house under the Domestic Violence Act. Through this Domestic Violence Act, the Congress party has incited a woman vs. woman war and the price is paid by Indian men.

Just the wives need to say that, “I am anticipating Domestic Violence” from my partner (Men), be it a friend or any one and the man is thrown out of his own house and lands up in Railway Platform; as also the bank accounts will be frozen.

Now it is up to the accused to prove her allegations are wrong in the court and she need not prove anything as her verbal allegations are construed as evidence, since the Congress led UPA Government thinks that all the wives / Daughter-in-law are born in Raja Harish Chandra’s Family, and hence can’t lie.

  • Do you know who has given wholesale free License to your wife to commit adultery and at the same time go scot free? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to abuse your age old parents and sisters and at the same time go scot free? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to throw out you and your old parents from their own home? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to kill your un-born child and go scot free? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to refuse to visit your own child once in a week at least? – Congress.
  • Do you know even a terrorist have right to stay in his own home, but Indian husbands do not have any right to stay in his own home , if wife demand the same under Domestic Violence act and who has made such a law ? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to beat, abuse, and refuse food to your child and you can’t even ask her a single question, as it will be termed as verbal abuse? – Congress.
  • Do you know if your wife demand 1000 rupees for her kitty party and you give 800, it is a crime by you as per law and who made such law? – Congress.

This is the state of the present Justice system in India and Gender Equality in India, a feat achieved by the Congress Government in the last 60 years.

For a wife even adultery is not a crime (it is a rewarding option and tax free money earning business for the whole life), but for a man even an allegation of “Name-calling” is crime and not only the man, his mother/sister/old father also can be put behind the bars under 498A or Domestic Violence Act. And such laws are made with the tax-payer’s hard-earned money, 82% of which comes from men.

Well educated, working and healthy women (read wives) are rushing to the courts to demand aristocratic maintenance from their husbands to maintain their lavish lifestyles, by leveling false allegations as is evident from court records and at the same time do not miss a chance (provided by the Congress led UPA Government) to file false criminal cases under Section 498A, Domestic Violence Act, mentioning that their husband is ill-treating them and demanding money from them. However, the wives themselves openly demand money as a legal extortion and blackmailing and the police, the media and the courts are mute spectators or at time active participants in squandering husband’s money. And all this drama happens under the nose of the Congress led UPA Government which sits on the abuse of Indian men, especially husbands and is hell bent on passing one after another anti-male extortionary laws.

On the contrary, if a husband is not able to earn money due to some reason or falls terminally ill, and his wife is earning money, yet he is not eligible for maintenance from his wife, irrespective of the fact that he had earned lacks of rupees and given to his wife prior to becoming disabled and such a man is told to either sell his body organs or go and commit suicide. Such a biased attitude is being meted out to Indian men under the Congress led UPA Government.

So the question arises: Is Indian Husband is a Free ATM Machine for Indian wives? As per Congress the answer is: Yes.

It is pertinent to mention here that, presently a wife can claim maintenance from four different Laws, like Section 24 Hindu Marriage Act, Section 125 CrPC, Section 18 Hindu Adoptions and Maintenance Act and Domestic Violence act. This is abuse and wastage of resources for the Indian Judiciary System (which always cries foul of being overburdened), since for the same purpose, three to four different cases are filed in different courts sometimes across states. It not only wastes the Judiciary’s man Power, but is also a violation of Indian constitution, wherein it is clearly mentioned in Article 20, that for the same offence a person can’t be punished/tried more than once. Then why do we have four different maintenance cases against a Husband for the same alleged cause of action?

Will Our LAW Maker change the section 304B of the IPC related to dowry deaths to section 304C (Sowry Death) and Section 498A (harassment to wife) to 498B (Sowry harassment by wife)?

We have repeatedly requested the Congress led UPA Government by providing all the data and official statistics of suffering of Indian men in general and husbands in particular and demanded that all Gender Biased LAW should immediately be made crime based void of any assumption that women never lie and men are born as Criminals. “MEN/WOMEN” word to be replaced by word “PERSON” and word wife/husband to be replaced with the word “SPOUSE”.

But it has fallen on deaf ears of the Congress led UPA Government and in return the Union minister for Women and Child Development makes the following derogatory statements against Indian men while being in office:

  • It’s turn to suffer the Indian men, as women suffered for long. (Like as Muslim Kings had destroyed a lot of temple, so let’s demolish the entire Mosque in India).
  • Don’t trust Your Men; trust Condom in the name of reducing AIDS. (Forgetting the fact that the AIDS spreads by multiple partner sex and a condom is used for multiple partner sex, not for single partner sex, which we term as married couple)
  • It’s Diwali Gift to Indian women. (Within two weeks, four women sent behind the bars under first DV act case in Pune and one age old women left her own house as her daughter-in-law walk in her house with her all friends and parents)

Readers may choose to vote for Congress and ensure that more and more suffering follows for Indian men. Since it’s not only Congress, but all political parties believe that increasing the suffering of Husbands and their family members is termed as Social Service in the country since Indian Husbands and their family members cannot ensure their defeat or a reduction in their vote share. So making more and more anti-husband, anti-family, anti-child and anti-men biased and lopsided law in the country is not going to harm them.

The Choice is with you and do not forget that only the crying baby gets the milk.

Congress government has converted the Indian Criminal Justice system into a wholesale free money earning business through Legal Extortion from Husbands and their family members.

Vote for any party, but not for congress and give a clear message that anti-husband, anti-men, anti-family and anti-child law and policy will not be accepted in this country by political party.

Disclaimer: These are totally writer’s personal views. Readers may have a different opinion. The name and place has been changed to protect the Person’s Identity.

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